Your Relationship Was

Never Meant to Feel Mediocre...

You weren’t made for the mild.

You’re not here to shrink, smile, or survive a love that barely grazes your skin.
You’re here for connection that stirs something.
For a partner who sees you — and craves you.
For a relationship that feels alive, magnetic, and deeply turned on…
Not because you perform for it, but because you’ve both come back to the truth.
The polarity.
The play.

This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about feeling more.

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Hey, I'm Larni!

The Long-Term Love Coach

Eighteen years with Sam, my husband.
Five babies.
And hundreds of moments spent guiding couples back to the kind of love that actually feels like love.
Not logistics. Not co-parenting. Not polite tolerance. Not a friendship.

Most relationships don’t fall apart because people stop loving each other.
They unravel because the polarity dies.
Because she’s doing everything — and he’s unsure how to lead.
Because no one ever showed them how to repair, reconnect, or reignite… without resentment.

What I know for sure?
Real love isn’t found. It’s built.
And when you understand polarity, communication, and repair — together —
you don’t just coexist.
You collide. You play. You rise.
You feel wanted, grounded, and alive — not just as partners, but as lovers again.

I’ve spent years unlearning the stories that told women to play nice, stay quiet, and carry the weight of the relationship alone.
The ones that said connection meant self-abandonment — and leadership meant burnout.

Now?
It’s my mission to help women and couples create relationships that feel magnetic, honest, and deeply alive.

Through grounded communication, polarity that actually works in real life, and practical tools that actually bloody work.—
I teach you how to return to your full self…
And invite your partner to rise with you.

This is where intimacy stops feeling like effort —
and starts feeling like your truth.

This is the difference between “we’re good” and “he can’t stop tracing my skin like it’s scripture.”

Yes—devotion and desire can live in the same body. And in this room, they do.

What you’ll find here:

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Grounded relationship strategy that actually works
Embodied polarity tools that go beyond the black and white masc femme vibes
Emotional mastery & repair frameworks
Reality changing relationship frameworks
Relatable AF teachings from someone actually embodying it and living it

If you're aching for connection that goes deeper, conversations that actually land, and the kind of magnetism that makes you feel alive again — you're home.

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